Ruth
During the time of the judges, there was a famine in the land. A man left Bethlehem in Judah with his wife and two sons to stay in the territory of Moab for a while. The man’s name was Elimelech, and his wife’s name was Naomi. The names of his two sons were Mahlon and Chilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah. They entered the fields of Moab and settled there. Naomi’s husband, Elimelech, died, and she was left with her two sons. Her sons took Moabite women as their wives: one was named Orpah and the second was named Ruth. After they lived in Moab about ten years, both Mahlon and Chilion also died, and the woman was left without her two children and without her husband.
She and her daughters-in-law set out to return from the territory of Moab, because she had heard in Moab that the Lord had paid attention to his people’s need by providing them food. She left the place where she had been living, accompanied by her two daughters-in-law, and traveled along the road leading back to the land of Judah.
Naomi said to them, “Each of you go back to your mother’s home. May the Lord show kindness to you as you have shown to the dead and to me. May the Lord grant each of you rest in the house of a new husband.” She kissed them, and they wept loudly.
They said to her, “We insist on returning with you to your people.”
But Naomi replied, “Return home, my daughters. Why do you want to go with me? Am I able to have any more sons who could become your husbands? Return home, my daughters. Go on, for I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me to have a husband tonight and to bear sons, would you be willing to wait for them to grow up? Would you restrain yourselves from remarrying? No, my daughters, my life is much too bitter for you to share, because the Lord’s hand has turned against me.” Again they wept loudly, and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her. Naomi said, “Look, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods. Follow your sister-in-law.”
But Ruth replied:
Don’t plead with me to abandon you
or to return and not follow you.
For wherever you go, I will go,
and wherever you live, I will live;
your people will be my people,
and your God will be my God.
Where you die, I will die,
and there I will be buried.
May the Lord punish me,
and do so severely,
if anything but death separates you and me.
When Naomi saw that Ruth was determined to go with her, she stopped talking to her.
The two of them traveled until they came to Bethlehem. When they entered Bethlehem, the whole town was excited about their arrival and the local women exclaimed, “Can this be Naomi?”
“Don’t call me Naomi. Call me Mara,” she answered, “for the Almighty has made me very bitter. I went away full, but the Lord has brought me back empty. Why do you call me Naomi, since the Lord has opposed me, and the Almighty has afflicted me?”
Ruth 1:1-21
Now Naomi had a relative on her husband’s side. He was a prominent man of noble character from Elimelech’s family. His name was Boaz.
Ruth the Moabitess asked Naomi, “Will you let me go into the fields and gather fallen grain behind someone with whom I find favor?”
Naomi answered her, “Go ahead, my daughter.” So Ruth left and entered the field to gather grain behind the harvesters. She happened to be in the portion of the field belonging to Boaz, who was from Elimelech’s family.
Later, when Boaz arrived from Bethlehem, he said to the harvesters, “The Lord be with you.”
“The Lord bless you,” they replied.
Boaz asked his servant who was in charge of the harvesters, “Whose young woman is this?”
The servant answered, “She is the young Moabite woman who returned with Naomi from the territory of Moab. She asked, ‘Will you let me gather fallen grain among the bundles behind the harvesters?’ She came and has been on her feet since early morning, except that she rested a little in the shelter.”
Then Boaz said to Ruth, “Listen, my daughter. Don’t go and gather grain in another field, and don’t leave this one, but stay here close to my female servants. See which field they are harvesting, and follow them. Haven’t I ordered the young men not to touch you? When you are thirsty, go and drink from the jars the young men have filled.”
She fell facedown, bowed to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor with you, so that you notice me, although I am a foreigner?”
Boaz answered her, “Everything you have done for your mother-in-law since your husband’s death has been fully reported to me: how you left your father and mother and your native land, and how you came to a people you didn’t previously know. May the Lord reward you for what you have done, and may you receive a full reward from the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.”
“My lord,” she said, “I have found favor with you, for you have comforted and encouraged your servant, although I am not like one of your female servants.”
At mealtime Boaz told her, “Come over here and have some bread and dip it in the vinegar sauce.” So she sat beside the harvesters, and he offered her roasted grain. She ate and was satisfied and had some left over.
When she got up to gather grain, Boaz ordered his young men, “Let her even gather grain among the bundles, and don’t humiliate her. Pull out some stalks from the bundles for her and leave them for her to gather. Don’t rebuke her.” So Ruth gathered grain in the field until evening. She beat out what she had gathered, and it was about twenty-six quarts of barley. She picked up the grain and went into the town, where her mother-in-law saw what she had gleaned. She brought out what she had left over from her meal and gave it to her.
Her mother-in-law said to her, “Where did you gather barley today, and where did you work? May the Lord bless the man who noticed you.”
Ruth told her mother-in-law whom she had worked with and said, “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz.”
Then Naomi said to her daughter-in-law, “May the Lord bless him because he has not abandoned his kindness to the living or the dead.” Naomi continued, “The man is a close relative. He is one of our family redeemers.”
Ruth the Moabitess said, “He also told me, ‘Stay with my young men until they have finished all of my harvest.’”
So Naomi said to her daughter-in-law Ruth, “My daughter, it is good for you to work with his female servants, so that nothing will happen to you in another field.” Ruth stayed close to Boaz’s female servants and gathered grain until the barley and the wheat harvests were finished. And she lived with her mother-in-law.
Ruth 2:1-23
Ruth’s mother-in-law Naomi said to her, “My daughter, shouldn’t I find rest for you, so that you will be taken care of? Now isn’t Boaz our relative? Haven’t you been working with his female servants? This evening he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. Wash, put on perfumed oil, and wear your best clothes. Go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let the man know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. When he lies down, notice the place where he’s lying, go in and uncover his feet, and lie down. Then he will explain to you what you should do.”
So Ruth said to her, “I will do everything you say.” She went down to the threshing floor and did everything her mother-in-law had charged her to do. After Boaz ate, drank, and was in good spirits, he went to lie down at the end of the pile of barley, and she came secretly, uncovered his feet, and lay down.
At midnight, Boaz was startled, turned over, and there lying at his feet was a woman! So he asked, “Who are you?”
“I am Ruth, your servant,” she replied. “Take me under your wing, for you are a family redeemer.”
Then he said, “May the Lord bless you, my daughter. You have shown more kindness now than before, because you have not pursued younger men, whether rich or poor. Now don’t be afraid, my daughter. I will do for you whatever you say, since all the people in my town know that you are a woman of noble character. Yes, it is true that I am a family redeemer, but there is a redeemer closer than I am. Stay here tonight, and in the morning, if he wants to redeem you, that’s good. Let him redeem you. But if he doesn’t want to redeem you, as the Lord lives, I will. Now lie down until morning.”
Ruth 3:1-13
Boaz said to the elders and all the people, “You are witnesses today that I am buying from Naomi everything that belonged to Elimelech, Chilion, and Mahlon. I have also acquired Ruth the Moabitess, Mahlon’s widow, as my wife, to perpetuate the deceased man’s name on his property, so that his name will not disappear among his relatives or from the gate of his hometown. You are witnesses today.”
All the people who were at the city gate, including the elders, said, “We are witnesses. May the Lord make the woman who is entering your house like Rachel and Leah, who together built the house of Israel. May you be powerful in Ephrathah and your name well known in Bethlehem. May your house become like the house of Perez, the son Tamar bore to Judah, because of the offspring the Lord will give you by this young woman.”
Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. He slept with her, and the Lord granted conception to her, and she gave birth to a son. The women said to Naomi, “Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you without a family redeemer today. May his name become well known in Israel. He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. Indeed, your daughter-in-law, who loves you and is better to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.” Naomi took the child, placed him on her lap, and became a mother to him. The neighbor women said, “A son has been born to Naomi,” and they named him Obed. He was the father of Jesse, the father of David.
Ruth 4:9-17
It’s been a little over 4 years since I last read through Ruth and I forgot how much I love this short book of the Bible! It takes place during the time of the judges and it gives a beautiful glimpse into the lives of a particular family, chosen by God, through whom He would send His Son.
I was reflecting on Naomi’s words at the end of chapter 1 after she has returned to Bethlehem: “Don’t call me Naomi. Call me Mara, for the Almighty has made me very bitter. I went away full, but the Lord has brought me back empty. Why do you call me Naomi, since the Lord has opposed me, and the Almighty has afflicted me?” It was affliction, affliction that Naomi attributed to the LORD, that brought her back to Bethlehem with her daughter Ruth.
This made me think of Isaiah 53:
“Yet he himself bore our sicknesses,
and he carried our pains;
but we in turn regarded him stricken,
struck down by God, and afflicted.
But he was pierced because of our rebellion,
crushed because of our iniquities;
punishment for our peace was on him,
and we are healed by his wounds.
We all went astray like sheep;
we all have turned to our own way;
and the Lord has punished him
for the iniquity of us all.
He was oppressed and afflicted,
yet he did not open his mouth.
Like a lamb led to the slaughter
and like a sheep silent before her shearers,
he did not open his mouth.
…
“Yet the Lord was pleased to crush him severely.
When you make him a guilt offering,
he will see his seed, he will prolong his days,
and by his hand, the Lord’s pleasure will be accomplished.
After his anguish,
he will see light and be satisfied.
By his knowledge,
my righteous servant will justify many,
and he will carry their iniquities.”
An afflicted Naomi returned to Bethlehem, the little village in Ephrathah of Judah, where one day the Son of God would be born so that He Himself would be afflicted for our sins. Naomi was bitter because of her circumstances, wrought by the hand of God. She could not yet see down the timeline to King David, and ultimately to King Jesus, to see that the LORD had a divine purpose in afflicting her and bringing her back to Bethlehem. Spurgeon’s commentary says, “So we may rest assured that nothing can come from those hands but what infinite wisdom directs and infinite love has ordained.”
The same day I read through Ruth, my Spurgeon Advent devotional was about the census in Luke 2, ordered by Caesar Augustus. Spurgeon noted that the census was ordered due to a rift between Caesar and Herod, and how it was really more of a power play by the former to assert dominance. However, were it not for the LORD moving the hearts of these petty tyrants, Mary and Joseph likely would not have left the comfort of Nazareth to go to Bethlehem with her being so near giving birth, and thus prophecy would not have been fulfilled.
It made me just sit back in wonder to think of all the ways the LORD is constantly working behind the scenes to orchestrate events that ultimately fulfill His purposes, and how often, affliction is part of the process. Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, thrown into prison over a false accusation, and then raised up to be second in command of Egypt, allowing him to organize food supplies during a famine that would save the offspring of Jacob from perishing. Moses was given up by his mother to save him from infanticide, found by a princess of Egypt, made an Egyptian prince and then exiled after murdering a man, but then raised up by God to rescue His people from Egypt. Esther was taken into Persian captivity, given to the king as a wife, and then had the opportunity (though also potentially a life-threatening one) to save the entire Jewish nation from annihilation by appealing to the king. I could go on and on with stories from God’s word of men and women who were afflicted, yet out of their affliction, God accomplished His purposes.
There was a line in my daughter’s Advent devotional last night that really stuck with me, “God always takes the gifts we wouldn’t pick and turns them into the gifts we really need.” It made me reflect on things that God has given me, and how often I can be ungrateful by commiserating over my situation or circumstances. Perhaps it is something as silly as my computer freezing up or a gas pump not functioning properly, or something more frustrating like a toddler throwing a massive tantrum and making a mess over the floors I just cleaned, or maybe it could be something more serious like a cancer diagnosis or the loss of a loved one. In all of these things, God is working for my good, even if I don’t see it. Maybe He is teaching me to have a loose grip on my control and to become more flexible when things don’t meet my expectations or go my way. Maybe He is teaching me to have patience and grace when everything in me wants to scream at and scold my unruly child or harp on my 6 year old’s bad attitude. Maybe He is teaching me to believe the best when a friend says something that comes across in a way that is hurtful or to just continue to be faithful even when I’m not seeing growth. Maybe He’s teaching me that even when everything around me feels or seems bad, HE IS STILL GOOD. James 1 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”
I actually really needed this teaching this week. I have had my approval button triggered because of my overzealous expectations about an event I’m hosting this weekend. In my mind, oftentimes BIG = SUCCESSFUL and SMALL = FAILURE. My sweet sister in Christ, who has a knack for always looking on the positive side, said she was excited about our small turnout because it would provide a more intimate setting which could lead to more meaningful conversations. Her words gave me peace, but also cut to the misplaced hope and expectations I had put in this event. It made me wonder, how often do I let my expectations hinder what God is orchestrating? Just like God brought two destitute widows back to Bethlehem to be brought in by their kinsman redeemer and become the continuation of a family line that leads all the way to Jesus, He can use small, seemingly unimportant, insignificant things to accomplish His purpose. Much like how He quietly and inconspicuously sent His Son into the world, born a King yet with no palace or crown. Jesus came in a small, unexpected way. He was a gift that the world wouldn’t pick, but ABSOLUTELY was the ONLY gift it needed. Many people were afflicted by the Almighty to bring about that moment in time, when the Word became flesh and tabernacled among us.
I find myself coming back to this excerpt from Elizabeth Prentiss’s book, Stepping Heavenward: “[God] never makes mistakes. But He often deals far differently with His disciples. He lets them grope their way in the dark until they fully learn how blind they are, how helpless, how absolutely in need of Him. What His methods will be with you I cannot foretell. But you may be sure that He never works in an arbitrary way. He has a reason for everything He does. You may not understand why He leads you now in this way and now in that, but you may, nay, you must believe that perfection is stamped on His every act.” That last line just makes me well up with tears…”perfection is stamped on His every act.” Naomi most certainly did not see the perfection in the way the LORD had afflicted her, in fact, she wanted to change her name from Naomi, which means “pleasantness”, to Mara, which means “bitter”. Oh what a work the LORD must have done on her heart through this process! How amazing that this woman, who thought her life was ruined and without purpose, found herself bouncing a baby grandson on her lap! Perhaps she lived long enough to see her great grandson Jesse be born as well, but how amazing it must have been for her to realize that the LORD chose HER family to bring the ultimate Kinsman Redeemer to His people – Who would truly unite both Jew and Gentile into one family under God!
There is just SO much to glean from Ruth (no pun intended!) And I am so thankful that the LORD had me in this place in His word, at this time, for my present circumstances. He truly is a GOOD God Who gives tremendously GOOD gifts! AMEN!